Van De Kamp – Bossy, Disrespectful Children are Not Cute

This Van De Kamp commercial that features a little girl who berates her mother for giving her minced fish is not cute and it is not funny.  That little brat should be glad that her mother feeds her.  Little blondie-locks does not have a job and contributes nothing toward the grocery bill.  If she doesn’t want minced fish, she doesn’t have to eat.  Guess what?  If she get hungry enough she’ll eat whatever her mom puts on the table.

There’s a line in the Goldie Hawn movie, Deceived where Goldie Hawn is trying to retrieve a very valuable necklace that her child mistakenly gave a friend.  The mother of the friend doesn’t want to upset her child by asking her to give the necklace back.  After much banter back and forth, Goldie Hawn takes the necklace from the child and says, “Who’s the parent here?” That’s what I want to know – Who’s the parent here?  Will the real parents please stand up?

No child has the right to speak to their parent that way and no parent should tolerate it.  It’s not funny and I wish advertisers would choose another route to market products.  Children don’t have to be rude to be funny.

I am sick and tired of rude, disrespectful children.  About a month ago I was trying to find a funny video with children to feature on my blog.  Most of what I found were smart-mouth, cussing kids whose parents thought it was funny.  I wonder how funny it’s going to be when little smarty mouth gets put out of school for being disrespectful to the teacher or cussing at the principle?

Conceiving and giving birth does not make a parent.  Parents have a responsibility to nurture and teach their children.  Let’s go back to the old days and teach our children some manners.

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9 Responses to Van De Kamp – Bossy, Disrespectful Children are Not Cute
  1. Brenda
    April 6, 2009 | 3:03 PM

    Oh lighten up – that little girl is adorable.

  2. Valerie
    April 6, 2009 | 4:06 PM

    The little girl is cute – her attitude stinks!

  3. Robin
    April 10, 2009 | 7:03 AM

    Valerie, I am in complete agreement. My daughters are cute too, but speaking to anyone in that tone is unacceptable. Brenda, what I hear in your statement is “If you are cute, you can act any way you like.”

  4. Damon
    April 10, 2009 | 8:20 PM

    Val, you said a mouthful. I can feel the pain in your writing. We definitely live in a different day. There is nothing “cute” about a little girl with a sharp tongue. The superficiality we place on exterior attractiveness has blinded us to the far superior “inner-beauty.” The little girl losses in the long run. And that’s D’s 2-cents.

    D (to the 2nd power)

    Damon’s last blog post..A Brief Note To- And About “Today’s Ministers”

  5. Natural
    April 11, 2009 | 10:08 AM

    when i saw that commercial, i was like what the heck. it’s rude and not cute at all. and people wonder how they lose control of their kids. it’s by letting them talk to you anyway they want.

    not here.

    Natural’s last blog post..My Two Left Feet

  6. LaTonya
    May 6, 2009 | 12:01 PM

    I agree. When I first saw the commercial I thought it was cute. Then… I realized just how not cute it was. The media has a large roll in helping us decide what is right or wrong. Even by dressing up wrong and calling it right. Sounds crazy, but some of us don’t have minds of our own, and wait for TV, magazines, movies… to say this is good, or bad, or how we feel about other cultures. That’s why protesting is a powerful tool.

    LaTonya’s last blog post..What’s For Dinner???

  7. Puffy
    October 27, 2009 | 8:53 AM

    The very first time I saw that commercial, I couldn’t believe it!! I would have slapped that child silly if I was her mother and she spoke to me like that. World’s a-changing, I guess.

  8. stacy
    February 10, 2010 | 2:11 PM

    Actually she does have a job.. she’s an actress!!

  9. Lynn
    April 2, 2010 | 9:32 AM

    “The very first time I saw that commercial, I couldn’t believe it!! I would have slapped that child silly if I was her mother and she spoke to me like that. World’s a-changing, I guess.”

    It sure is. We don’t allow child abuse any more.

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